Mentoring and Modeling: What Architects can Learn from Montessori
We are all learners
Whether apprentice or master, we never stop learning. Implicit in this is the idea that everyone has something to teach. Even that intern. By drawing out the knowledge of the person you are mentoring, you help them to better understand themselves, what they know, and what matters to them. This allows you to coach them in pursuing activities and professional roles that will lead to their fulfillment. It also allows the mentor to get a better understanding of his or her own professional values, and to question established ways of doing thing by asking “why.” Learning is a lifelong mission of acquiring knowledge and categorizing it in a way that makes sense and is useful to us. Growth and change are requirements for relevance.
Mentoring is not a relay race
So often, we view mentoring purely as knowledge sharing, a ritual passing of the baton from one generation of architects to another. That assumes that the mentor has all of the knowledge and power and that their career path is the “right” one. It also assumes that our profession is static and that knowledge handed down will always have value. Especially in today’s culture, career paths are highly individual. Mentors should be guides, asking questions not imposing rules.
Mentoring is multi-directional
There is a common myth that mentoring requires a level of experience or specialized knowledge. At some fuzzily defined point, we “cross over” from being mentored to mentoring. Nothing could be further from the truth. Why do you think there are so many executive career coaches? We all need an outside party to help us view ourselves from 35,000 feet and take stock. Someone to challenge us and help us set new goals. We grow by teaching others, learning from them and seeking out new knowledge and paths for ourselves. No matter where you are in your career path, you should seek out mentorship. The AIA has some valuable resources on its website http://www.aia.org/professionals/mentors/index.htm for helping you make professional development and learning a key part of your firm’s culture.
In your career path, who has inspired you? Who can you work with today to get that kick in the pants to keep on growing? Who can you reach out to, drawing out both their passion and purpose and your own? Please share your experiences both as a mentor and being mentored.