New Year's resolutions are something I have always viewed as pointless. You either want to make a change or you don't. If you do, you begin that process at the point you set the intention, not some arbitrary time on the calendar. However, there's no shortage of self-improvement advice this time of year, which inspired to write this New Year's Eve post because I felt that all of that wasn't enough- you need a lot more than retrospect on the passing year or self-improvement tips to help you have a successful year. You need clear intent.
There's all kinds of superstitions and advice about what (or what not) to eat or wear or do to usher in good luck for the new year. Some friends and I had a lot of fun exchanging our family good luck traditions on facebook, which led me to think about my favorite quote, "Luck favors the prepared." You bring opportunity to yourself by being ready for it. When you have a clear sense of who you are and what you want from your life, you become open to the things to which you can say yes, or no, on a daily basis that will usher in transformation. No resolution will do that for you.
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This chart perfectly sums up the open attitude
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Change, and the willingness to embrace it brings opportunity. As a feng shui expert, I've been preparing for a new year by cleaning and clearing clutter from my life and will spend tomorrow re-setting intentions for the year ahead with my family. I find this a good way to mentally let go of that which no longer serves me and make room for new opportunities. So don't drive yourself crazy trying to set all kinds of new goals. Look within and take stock of how you have evolved. Have you gotten sidetracked from your existing goals? Do your goals from five years ago no longer serve you? Are you complacent in your goals, or do you need to step outside your comfort zone to really achieve something big?
I invite you to do your own space clearing. In the process of weeding out that which you don't need, use, or love, think about what the stuff you surround yourself says about who you are. Place objects that affirm who you are or want to become in a prominent place. Success is about your willingness to change. You don't need more resolutions, just goals attuned to the person you wish to become. Wishing you a happy and abundant 2013!
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